Silva's spent his career working with people whose relationship with sex has become a source of distress, shame, or secrecy. He doesn't tell you to quit. He doesn't tell you you're broken. He helps you understand what's actually driving the behavior, and gives you real tools to change your relationship with it.
His approach is grounded in 50 years of peer-reviewed research and the WHO's diagnostic framework. Not ideology. Not moral panic. Science.
People come to him for
- Feeling out of control around porn
- The stress-porn-guilt cycle
- Shame about sexual behaviour
- Wanting to change habits without being judged
- Understanding what's driving compulsive sexual behavior
published books
Compulsive Sexual Behaviours: A Psycho-Sexual Treatment Guide for Clinicians
Routledge
Sexology: The Basics
Routledge
Sexual Diversity: Being Human through Understanding and Acceptance
Psychotherapy Matters
Courses on Mojo
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